Are you sitting quietly somewhere?  Do a quick scan of your body.  What do you feel and where?  Is there any rigidity or tightness around your heart?  Any place that you are feeling rigid in your body or in your heart may mean that you are trying to control things. Control is a great thing when it is being used, propelled, and impelled by Spirit.  However, control when it is coming from you and your ego, because you are contracting in your business, afraid the resources aren’t there, saying to yourself, “I don’t know that I can do this” or “I would feel so embarrassed if this didn’t work” is control that mutes your purpose, deadens your business and squelches your dreams.  The Jesus story is told of John the Baptist coming along immersing Jesus through a water ritual and then Jesus hearing a voice saying, “You are my beloved, in whom I am well pleased.” This is the antidote to control. You know, all of us need to be reminded that we are pleasing to ourselves, to the Divine and that we are on our purpose. We need to know we belong. Most of control comes out of many fears, but the basic one is that we don’t belong.  So if your business is not working easily and you are feeling like you have to “tighten up the ship” to get through this economic storm, then you may want to check in with yourself about control. Not in judgment, but with compassion, offer yourself a new way of being. Check in with your body, where it is tight or rigid, for this is the area that is awaiting your compassionate reminder that “you belong”. Breathe into that tight area, reminding yourself that “it is safe to relax”.  The place that we often feel the least at home or welcomed is in our own body. All that tightness is just a sign of not feeling at home or belonging. When you know you belong, the grip of control softens and the energetic release needed for a mindset of prosperity is supplanted.  Mother Theresa was an Albanian nun who learned English in the British Isles. Her story says she was on a train going around a mountain when she had the vision of what she was to be doing, helping the poor in India. This woman, who didn’t belong, found a home among the poor in India. She had no trouble manifesting money for her work. She belonged even though many thought her mission foolish.  What is the grip that is draining your energy rather than renewing it? For each of us the particular spin that you have on control and how it seemingly protects you from something is unique to you. The release, however, can result in your business moving forward with more ease and more money. One of our clients contracted a large financial deal after clearing some old relationship pain with his father. By surrendering and releasing control in order to find a new frame for a childhood struggle, he allowed himself to make room for a new paradigm. He knew he belonged and the wealth was right there.  As I often teach people in seminars, it takes a lot of energy to hold a clinched fist. Relax your grip just for a moment, remind yourself you belong and see what happens. Your body, your heart and your business will appreciate it.  

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